2009年03月04日

Wish you a good time

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Junior middle school graduate working as a temporary labourer to rushing in Shanghai alone
The little girl 19 years old: Hello!
The letter has been received for a long time, because is busy, fail to write back in time.
You say in the letter: "I am 19 years old today, should be age studying, graduated and left and studied the third day because of many kinds of reasons. Have put and learn, study the computer, has worked for nearly 23 years. I have been to Guangzhou during these years, came back again after doing for one year. Can't say clearly the reason may be too lonely. One year Shanghai, I whole people became it very much timid, it is afraid what is made, afraid of what I oneself understand, completely, have too many worry.
"I do things in the company of one hometown now, but I seem not to like such calmness, do not think this is what I want. I am fidgety, but can not say that there emerged a to come by the head. I am very worried, do not know what oneself likes, suitable for doing something, I do not think I am me, I always act others, I want to get back to oneself, but lost, I am very ignorant.
"I want to go to Beijing very much now, but do parents worry if what if, it takes the place to go to afraid and give up oneself and think of for parents? I begin to wander up and down again. I just want to go very much, I can not find out what is done either. I often think one's own time is little, I know all these worry, killing time, but I can not really make a decision. "
The above is some contents extracted from the letter. First of all, you are just 19 years old, mostly still study in the campus with your urban girl of the same age now, and you have not only learnt the computer but also there is experience of working in the big city, can earn one's own living. This is very amazing.
But at the same time, I saw that enter into the wound that the society brings to you too early, you " become timid, do anything and afraid, there is too much worry " . This is well understood. When you who are young lead earth in the hometown into Shanghai, that was faced is not merely a strange environment, and does not know huge monster how to tackle at all. Though you only use this section of life " Lonely " Two words have slipped gently, but the sad and any helpless person with experience of life that includes among them can all understand.
Then, you get back to the hometown, begin another section of life. But has watched the prosperity of the big city, there are more open outlooks, all of the hometown can't already satisfy you. Moreover, with the passage of time, the big city is brought your pressure and puzzled and thereupon gone far, you hope to choose to leave again.
On the surface this time, it is worrying that keep you here of parents. But look from deep layer, it is once that piece of experiences that make your life to the big city no longer idealize, and the difficulty that the new strange environment may meet makes you unable to choose to leave resolutely.
You are in thinking that it is a bit afraid to go, the awkward condition that wants to stay and are also very unreconciled to.
I write among one article, strong melon that sprain sweetless, melon familiar base of a fruit fall. Every could grit one's teeth resolution under no well determined. Have not you obviously decided yet now, has left on earth, why to go to Beijing? Then, first anxious to take, 19 year old of little girls go to Beijing alone, don't say the difficulty that oneself face, parents do not really set one's mind at ease. And then say the social security instantly is not very good, without the partner, advise you not to come temporarily.
You are still young, how could think one's own time is little? Mr. Ke might than to age even heavy father have you, free little feeling. So, think it is unreasonable like this. You can well study calmly, live calmly. You mention oneself only for the third day, whether can study some cultural knowledge after the work in a planned way? The society needs knowledge type talent in the future. Certainly, this isn't to say that must go back to school, can become a useful person to teach oneself too. So long as draw up the practical feasible scheme, it is equally effectual to study while working.
So propose first you, no, please anxious to pay in Beijing, second, work, arrange properly to study as much as possible, store the good nourishment for the mind for one's own future.
Needless and worried, your great time has still just begun.
Wish you a good time!
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